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Funeral Etiquette
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Knowing the basics of funeral etiquette can help you deal
with a difficult time, while also making a sad time easier for others to
handle around you as well.
Funerals are sad times, aren't they? Even when funerals are planned out, there is still a lot of boo-hooing and crying, and a lot of black
suits. Sometimes it feels like things are just a little too heavy and you
want to crack a joke, but should you? What are the basics of funeral
etiquette and how should you behave so that you don't get kicked out of the
wake?
Wearing black is a good start, but that's only the beginning
of your funeral etiquette lesson.
When You're at a Wake
The wake can be a downright creepy occasion. You are
generally viewing the body during this time, in all of its embalmed glory.
This is not fun. It is not helpful for the grieving process, but some people
need proof the person actually died. And so, wakes are held. To make sure
you are on your best behavior, you should talk to the spouse or to the
relatives of the deceased at some point, offer your condolences as well as
to help if they need anything. If you have a memory to share, that would be
a good time too. If you do not want to look at the body, don't. But if you
do, make sure to make it quick so that you don't hold up the line if it's a
bigger funeral. (And for heaven's sake, don't talk about how good/bad a job
the embalmer did. Leave that for the car ride home.)
During the Funeral
When you're at a funeral, you should be wearing black or at
least dark colors and staying completely silent. If the priest or the
officiate wants you to say something, they'll tell you. If the funeral is a
full mass and you're not a Christian, participate as you can, but don't feel
like you need to go up for communion if you don't want to. However, don't
heckle those who do.
After the Memorial Service or Funeral
Sometimes, the deceased will have set up a burial life
insurance policy that includes a luncheon or other gathering after the
service. If you are invited to come, and all who go to the funeral are, you
will want to stop by, pay your respects and then leave. You don't need to
stay all night or drink up all the free beverages. Just linger for as long
as feels comfortable, then get out. The only reason you should stay longer
is if you are helping to clean up. |
